If you must succeed in a any relationship then you must know this fact! The main purpose of a relationship is to relate, without relating the relationship will only be a ship with two strangers in it. When I say relate, I mean? TALK! Nothing nourishes a relationship like information, knowledge they say is power. Same thing applies in a relationship, when a partner has real time information about you they suddenly feel powerful in the relationship. They feel in control, it's like they can tell what tomorrow holds and it gives confidence. The sole reason why it hurts so bad to receive vital information concerning your partner from a stranger is because it makes you feel powerless, less in control and uncertain. Today, decide to relate; in the workplace, family, with friends and loved ones.